The third Friday of every month, the Rooftop Resort in Hollywood throws a fetish party. It’s a smaller, more intimate event. But the entire hotel is a swingers venue, so there’s all kinds of other stuff you can get into.  

Additionally, the third Saturday of every month brings the Submission parties in Miami. No cameras are allowed (except for professionals, because some people think this is Splash Mountain and want the souvenir shots of themselves lapping milk out of a bowl) and it’s a comfortable, safe environment. Well, relatively.

Some doms have private dungeons where you can rent space, or work with them; Scary Mary Santa is one of the better-known. There’s a space up in West Palm called James, too. But most of the scene here is all done through networking and friends. The fetish parties are a great place to meet people and get that in — you’ll find more of the doms and dungeons through them.

In Wynwood you’ll find Hammers & Nails, which is about as close to a BDSM club as exists in South Florida. The club has frequent parties, so check the website and Facebook to see what’s going on.